Eh, close in its not really going to matter which one you use. As for it being ok, yeah, the large lead shot is just as soft as the small lead shot 
Only time youd really have to think about it is when using steel shot. Then youd want to get a choke tube rated for steel shot. But lead shot and rifled slugs will go through your choke tubes just fine.
Only time youd really have to think about it is when using steel shot. Then youd want to get a choke tube rated for steel shot. But lead shot and rifled slugs will go through your choke tubes just fine.