I'm looking to buy my first shotgun. I want a 12 gauge semi-automatic and I've narrowed it down to either the Franchi Affinity, Remington 11-87, or Winchester SX3. I've thrown up all three and i like the franchi the best; it's light and fits nicely on my shoulder. i know you can't really go wrong with a remington or winchester, but they were pretty heavy. I'm a girl and don't know if i can hold it up for that long in the duck blind. however, the franchi is probably going to have a harder kick because it's so light. any suggestions??